Prufrock & Priorities


Since 2019, I have lived my life in three-month cycles, from scan to scan. But now that I have had two consecutive stable scans, is it time to envision living my life in more than three-month increments? I hear the speaker of T.S. Eliot’s “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock,” ask, “Do I dare/Disturb the universe?”

“Thanks to a combination of forces, cancer drug development is now happening fast enough…it is outpacing the growth of cancer cells…” Kate Pickert writes in “Are We Learning to Outrun Cancer.” It’s true. Like she said, I have “…access to so many treatment options that [I am] able to leap from one to the next, changing course whenever [my] cancer becomes resistant to a drug, always staying ahead of [my] disease.”

Abigail Johnston’s beautiful and eye-opening blog post “On Outliving the Statistics” details what it means to “outlive” the 30% five-year relative survival rate for MBC. Living with MBC means keeping constant vigilance, pivoting and reframing your future while keeping up on the latest research, and most importantly, making sure everyone has a ticket for this ride! 

“Untold number of Americans are dying every year not because they have untreatable cancer, but because they cannot get the treatments that could save them,” Pickert explains. “Black women are less likely to be diagnosed with breast cancer than white women but are about 40% more likely to die of the disease.” 

Living with MBC is also not just about planning for my future. It’s about making sure:

Because now is the time to recommit to your advocacy. To double down. Now is the time to “disturb the universe” and let your voice be heard.


Living Beyond Breast Cancer’s Beyond the Headlines offers you a way to stay on top of breast cancer news.

Read Kate Pickert’s Radical: The Science, Culture, and History of Breast Cancer in America

Plan to attend Knowledge is power: The Black breast cancer experience in September

4 responses to “Prufrock & Priorities”

  1. Mary Lynn Ellis Avatar
    Mary Lynn Ellis

    Brava, friend. Beautiful post. Got recommendations for how to advocate from outside the MBC community? ❤️

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  2. Appreciate you sharing my musings!! We’re stronger together!!

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  3. Jessica Royer Ocken Avatar
    Jessica Royer Ocken

    I love hearing that your scans are stable, and I appreciate your perspective so much. ❤️ Hugs and love to all Burkaks.

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  4. Great news about scans! Sending you all the love and light and hopefully will see you virtually for yoga soon ❤

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