Author: burkak1971
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Overexpressed Asks: A Series Featuring the Voices of MBC
Last fall when I needed to make an difficult decision about my next line of treatment, I connected with AMELIA O’RELLY. Wonderfully warm and supportive, she opened up to me about her MBC journey and what her life is like on Enhertu. Making difficult decisions about cancer care is one of the many challenges of…
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Overexpressed Asks: A Series Featuring the Voices of MBC
Overexpressed Asks is honored to feature MARY KATZKE. Recently, we connected via Zoom and chatted about living with MBC, mothering, practicing yoga, writing, reading books, and being a part of Living Beyond Breast Cancer. MARY KATZKE has more than forty years of progressive, nonprofit media creation using documentary film, photography, screenwriting and social media to…
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The Revolutionary Art of Maintenance
Currently, I am reading Eula Biss’ deliciously thoughtful Having and Being Had, which traces the roots of our assumptions about wealth, work and property, and reveals the ways in which capitalism is inculcated and internalised. One of my favorite creative nonfiction writers, Biss likes to write about her firsts. When her first child was born,…
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Return to Sender
One day James McGrath arrives at my house. Out of nowhere, his name begins to show up next to mine on a subscription label and solicitation letter to a journal I have subscribed to for years. Because my name is also on the envelope, I am technically not breaking the law when I open up…
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A Cancer Vacation: What Your Nervous System Needs This Holiday Season
Many years ago, my cancer counselor asked, “What happens if you take a vacation from cancer?” A vacation from cancer? He must have been kidding. How does someone who lives with MBC take a vacation from cancer? Then, one of my very wise teachers reflected that when you have cancer, your body is always in…
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HGTV: Every Story Has a Happy Ending
At my cancer center–a 500,000-square foot, state-of-the-art building which boasts an estimated 300,000 patients a year–all waiting room television channels are tuned to Home & Garden Television, better known as HGTV. It does not matter what time of day or which department I am in, the television blissfully blares shows like Home Town, featuring Erin…
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Good Luck: To Say or Not to Say, That is the Question
As I am packing up my things after my infusion, the infusion nurse, who knows that I usually go to another location for my treatment, sends me off with a quick goodbye and “good luck.” I immediately respond with, “Thanks” But in my gut, I feel something different. What does she mean by that? Was…
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Dear Davis: A Letter About Grief & Loss by Phil Kohlmetz
In June 2016, I wave goodbye to Amy. She’s radiant, framed in the doorway by an early California sunlight, arm in arm with her sister, Jen. Knowing that this may be the last time I see her, I hug her and whisper in her ear, “You are beautiful.” On August 1, 2016, Amy Petrolati died…
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A Song Not Written About MBC
Please note: This post asks you to hear Bob Dylan’s “Positively Fourth Street” in a new way. If you are a huge Dylan fan and do not want me to ruin this song for you, please read one of my other blog posts. Last week, while inching down Philadelphia’s crowded and congested Route 1 on…
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Transforming Your Medical Records Into Poetry Workshop
“Everyone who is born holds dual citizenship, in the kingdom of the well and in the kingdom of the sick,” opens Susan Sontag’s book Illness as Metaphor. And in the kingdom of illness, surgery, and disease, we encounter mysterious words such as electrocautery, compression deformity, and peak systolic strain. For those of us who are…
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